Weed or more?

So I met this girl on a dating app (I’m married but bi, and my husband and her husband don’t mind) anyways, we decided to meet after a few weeks of talking so I go to her house, almost 2 hour drive. Get there and everything seems normal, she wants to do some dabs (legal here) so I thought what the heck why not, I usually smoke indica and I’m just fine. Well she didn’t tell me but apparently it was some hybrid and sativa. I took the second hit and immediately stop breathing, starting coming in and out of consciousness, I asked her to call an ambulance because I wasn’t F-ing breathing and she said no because my husband would be pissed if he had to pay for it so I started panicking because I needed help. I start breathing a little better but still wheezing like crazy and everything is terrifying, she “jokingly” says by the way there’s a rape drug in there so I freak out even more, call my husband to come get me, he doesn’t understand how terrified I am so he takes his time and texts her that I just need to sleep. She takes me to the couch, I could barely walk or talk and I start violently throwing up everywhere, she takes me to the shower to clean off and washes my clothes and couch cover. I passed out and woke up about 2 hours later, she gave me something to eat and my husband showed up. They’re getting along fine but she wasn’t really talking to me and I text her later (because my tire blew in the way home) and she just keeps saying she’s really upset I thought she drugged me. Is this something normal that can happen from weed or is there something she’s not telling me?