Should I feel bad for wanting a third child? ( read description )

Question

I have a 3&2 year old and I love being a mom. I love babies. I want 4-5 kids. 
The thing is we’re young parents (24&26) and have been struggling a lot financially. 
If I have another baby anytime soon we’ll be spending a lot of money on clothes, formulas, etc. and I know that cos I done it already and know how expensive it is to raise kids. 
But I really worry because I have pcos and it takes me quite a few tries before I actually get pregnant. I don’t want it to be too late where it’s impossible to have more kids but I also stress about the situation we are in right now. 
I don’t know anything but I do know that I’d love my girls to have a baby brother soon .

Answer

If you have a 3 & 2-year-old, it doesn't sound like it took you that long to get pregnant. If you're financially struggling, it would be really irresponsible to add another child into the mix. They're the ones who will ultimately suffer.

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I think a lot of people want to have babies for themselves but not thinking about the child or the child’s needs. If you are struggling financially then you should get that figured out before you have a child and make it the child’s problem.

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Give it some time. It doesnt sound like it took too long to get pregnant with #2 at least, and if you guys are already struggling financially; a new baby obviously isn't going to make that any better. Get yourselves into a position where you don't have to worry about all that as much and then think about another baby.

Should I feel bad for wanting a third child? ( read description )

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