I just want to punch him and his mom sometimes...
*Long story* a few weeks ago I got back from vacation with the baby and my husband picked us up and when we got home he was just finishing cleaning up and i took a snap of him... saying how happy i was to be home...
So the next day his mom txts me saying that he shouldn't be cleaning, that if i wanted the house cleaned when I got here that I should have told her so she could so it... then she kept going about how my daughter wasn't his bc supposedly he didn't sign any papers at the hospital(which he did bc thats his baby) then she kept going saying how she will baby sit my daughter like any other kid bc she had to eat(i was gonna pay her to babysit, since I started work) and that she wouldn't see her as her granddaughter...
I was so mad about all this I started crying bc of what she was saying and I told him to tell her off like wtf and have my back bc what she was saying was all nonsense...
Nd he just told me to ignore her...
4 days passed by and I just ignored everything, then she txtd me again...
Saying how since i didnt reply that everything she was saying was true! That it wasn't his baby, & kept pretty much insulting me and she even brought my mom to the convo.. which all this time i was being so polite and trying to show her that she wouldn't get under my skin... so at the end of the day he "talked to her" and literally came to nothing bc she said she wasn't changing her mind... so he told her to just mind her business. but we had a few events coming up that we both me nd her had to attend... nd she wanna pretend like all she said never happend didnt even apologized for all the bs she was saying and it angers me that he ignores it too... as if nothing ever happend and she still wants to see the baby and stuff like... NO!! How am I suppposed to act in family events that she wants to hold her... so I feel like I'm being the bigher person but I also feel like I'm just letting her disrespect me and my husband didn't wanna get involved and tell her off...
Ughhh its so frustrating bc i feel like he didn't have my back... nd he doesnt wanna touch the subject,he wants me to ignore it too
Just needed to get it out of my chest*
*Btw I did get another babysitter to watch my daughter bc there was no way that I would let her babysit her...
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