Are we BDSM???

Question

Sooo.. My husband won't have sex with me if I talk or ask for it in a slutty manner. Sex is mostly when he wants but sex when I want is limited which drives me crazy once I get going. I can go hours if allowed and it scares me as I don't want to bore him. I am bisexual and sometimes I feel having a third would take less pressure as I'd love to have both more often kinda a nympho and hate to admit it.

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You have no agreement, no structure, it doesn’t sound like you range far outside the nilla, so I would say no definitely. You also sound...unhappy. Have you ever talked to him about this?

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You're not bdsm if you haven't previously discussed it and agreed on it. Just because your partner is a douche doesn't make you bdsm.

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I don’t think you guys are hun.  You would likely know and not have to ask.  However, there might be certain aspects to it that you may identify with.  But generally speaking, and this is just my own experience, of you are involved in a relationship that involves BDSM it is very well thought out and discussed beforehand. And as for everything else I think you need to talk to him about that, as lightly as possible. Some people don’t take well to the idea of a threesome.

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Sounds to me like you have kinks not BDSM. Two different things however as stated by the others it could be possible to have more of a BDSM relationship.

Are we BDSM???

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