I need opinions, maybe past experiences???

Question

me & my boyfriend were doing things & i was giving him head but it got soft. we’ve been having a lot of sex lately but we did it once on friday he was kinda drunk so he blamed it on the fact that we were using a condom, on saturday we did do it a couple of times & he said he had to tap out. yesterday I gave him a few hand jobs & he came but not a lot, he blamed it on the fact that it was tired & needed a lil bit of a break, is that really a reason?? or should i be concerned that he’s not into me anymore

Answer

Honestly yes, it sounds like you’re doing it a LOT! Which is great but either or both of you may need a break to.. recharge. And it’s almost certainly not about his attraction to you, it’s more likely that he’s nervous about doing it so much that he can’t get it up/worrying about pleasing you.

Answer

Sounds like he was being sweet and doing it when you were in the mood, but he's exhausted and finally said something because he doesn't want you to think its you.  Maybe try waiting until he initiates next time and see how that goes. I know for my husband if I try to push it when he's just not feeling it (which is rare) he sometimes can't get it up or it doesn't stay hard because he needs a break in a "rest and recharge" sort of way. Things go so much better if I ask if he wants it, then wait until he starts in, rather than leading the way all the time. Also, hand jobs without lube can chafe his sensitive skin, so it could be that he's actually sore.

I need opinions, maybe past experiences???

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