Third Trimester Nightmare

I am 26w3d and this morning I had a nightmare where my husband wanted to bring another woman from work into our bed after our baby was born and I was going back to work. I knew the woman and she's a good friend of ours that he worked with at our last home, we moved from Cold Lake AB to Trenton ON in September, but she was at his current work place and not the person we know in real life. I was shocked in my dream and heartbroken and later that night we were in bed and I started to cry saying I didn't want to do that, I still wanted intimacy between us.

I woke up to my husband's god awful snoring and woke him up saying roll over, I had a nightmare since I was the "big spoon". He woke up and rolled over and started to cuddle me and I told him what happened in my dream. He starts chuckling and says it's ok don't worry it would never happen. We started to kiss and play with each other but just kinda left it at that. I was apologizing for waking him up with the nightmare and he just goes it's ok because he has a sexy needy woman next to him. He's like the only way that would even happen is if we just stopped all intimacy and physical contact but that's impossible for us.

He looks at the clock and my alarm was supposed to go off in 13 mins from then. We chatted a bit more and he was telling me how our friend had contacted him recently out of left field about her husband being very distant since quitting his job to find a more stable scheduling job (he's oil patch and was gone for 2-3 weeks and back for 1 week rotation). She had told him that she's been having thoughts of cheating on him because her needs as a wife aren't being met. She's not one to even think those things cause she loves her husband very much but he hasn't even touched her lately. I felt bad for her, she's a wonderful person and a mom and wife so I felt her pain when I thought back to my nightmare from earlier.

Thanks for listening to a hormonal preggo lol.