Sex not enough!

I recently got my tubes removed because of cancer cells. Since then i have been super horny!!!! Like sex is just not enough for me! Me and my husband have been together for 10 years married for 8 of them. Now i want to spice things up because after 4 kids things have died down a little. We used to be crazy in bed and we still can be but not like before. But since my surgery our sex life is not enough for me! We don’t use toys or anything either so that could be allot of it as well.

Our anniversary is coming up in November and i would like to have a nice night with him. Get a babysitter for the kids, Go to dinner, get a hotel room, maybe even buy some kind of toys and creams and what not but idk how to do that without him feeling like he’s not enough! Because although right now its not i have never had to deal with this much horniness and before that sex was still amazing to me. I just feel like i need to bring the spark back from before.

How do i go about it without him feeling like hes not good? I also feel like we are both holding back on what we can improve and what makes us feel good! We never really were able to moan and be verbal because we also lived in someone hose or now that we have our own place we have renters who rent our basement and the middle portion or our house! (Hint why i want to get a hotel room). Some one help please!! I am so conflicted on what to do!!

Any advice, even tips and tricks, ideas anything really would be great!!