Would it be wrong if I got one anyway?

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I wanna get a dildo but my partners against it 🤦‍♀️ I’m thinking about getting one anyways. Thoughts?

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Seriously?? A woman posts that a guy watches porn behind her back after she told him she didn’t like it and it’s all “that’s disrespectful to the relationship” “he did it behind your back, leave him!” , “how disgusting” but if a woman wants to use a toy behind her husbands back, “it’s your body, not his”, “he doesn’t own you”..... this is wrong. Pick a side ladies, is it wrong or is it only wrong if the guys do it? 🙄
If you’re going to get a dildo even though you know he doesn’t like it, it’s wrong. Be honest with him about it, don’t hide it.

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It would be wrong to stay in a relationship with someone who thinks they can control that.

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Have you spoke about why you want one? Do you two have a good sex life? Or are you not fulfilled. 
Maybe just communicate why you want one and it he doesnt want to help improve whatever it is.. Then maybe get something a little more discreet. But don't lie about it. Lies always come out and you don't want to start something over something as little (or big 😉) like a dildo..

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He already said he’s against it if u do it anyways ur disrespecting him and ur relationship. How would u feel if the tables were turned? If he went out and got a life sized sex doll? That looks like a porn star It’s a sex toy right? It’s his body and his choice right? What if he completely disregards ur feelings about something like porn, online chat rooms, phone sex hotlines. Where’s the limit? What should do is discuss it with him and find out why he’s against it and then explain why u want it and come to a compromise since that’s what adults do.

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It's not something my husband is ok with so I wouldn't go behind his back and do something I know he doesn't like.

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You are brave to talk to your parents about getting a dildo. 🙌🏻
I’m an adult, married and 2 children, my own house... I still have a small panic attack when my dad comes into my room and near THE drawer 🤦🏻‍♀️

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I’d explore why he doesn’t want you to have one? Is it threatening to his masculinity? Also, why do you want one? Many women are making a comparison to men and porn, but really I think it’s different. Most women get sex toys to help them figure out how their bodies work and become more orgasmic and sexually interactive with their partners. As long as you aren’t thinking of it as a replacement for him and more as a pleasurable supplement to help you connect sexually, I’m not sure why he would object

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My husband doesn’t want me to have a dildo because it goes inside me and he thinks he should be good enough for that (which I agree, he is) but he bought me a vibrator and sometimes we even use it together. Maybe talk to him about that?

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Get one. But also ask why, maybe if you get sex toys together he won’t feel excluded if it’s a pride thing

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Girl it's your kitty get her a toy. Guys don't own us

Would it be wrong if I got one anyway?

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