I did NOT need to know

Hi all.

So.. I've been a bit uncomfortable the past few days..

I'm a 26 yo female and my 13 yo stephson basically told me (with no apparant need) he boned his teddy bear (and I needed to wash it)

Ok his point was for me to wash it.. But.. I mean.. Couldn't he just have told me it smelled from sleepy sweat...?

I mean I'm good for open communication.. I'm thinking, probably more than his parents are..

But he's been asking questions about our private sexlife as well (for which I tell him those things are none of his business) and this is just.. I don't know.. Too much..

Like.. Fine he bones his teddy.. But why tell anyone..

I guess I'll just need to let it go 🙄🙄🙄

Update:

Are you guys saying he should be doing his own laundry? 🤣

His actual parents don't even expect him to tie his own shoes.. I am starting to introduce basic chores... (setting the table, making their beds, clearing and cleaning the table, doing the dishes, making sure their laundry gets into the laundry basket at all.. Oh and one of the most dificult ones is to have themselves washed propperly)

Also @ Priscilla thanks for your concern.. I've been handling these situations just fine. It's just that it's been the x'th time and I'm thinking this might not be normal.. Like.. He's told me he saw his mom go down on her fiance (accidentally) and in thesame breath he asked if I do that with his dad.. And I responded like "why would you even want to know this about your parents?" just like he hasn't been holding back to tell me how he and his brother watch porn together at their mom's house.. And I don't want to come off too strong because if anything.. We need to be able to tell their mom that she needs to take action on certain points.. They are 10 and 13 they have no business watching SM porn... (as they have)

The 10 yo has been 'slapping' himself in the face and told us he 'enjoys' it...