Missing him

What would everyone do if they left your daughters father for another man because he was to busy for you and your baby and this other guy showed that attention. But once your not with your childs father the new guy does the same thing?

I was with my daughters father for 3 yrs. I had 3 miscarriages with him before her. He was a firefighter and an emt driver so he always busy. When he was home he wouldn't help with baths feedings or diapers. I got fed up with the lack of help and started to talk to a friends friend that promised me that i wouldn't be alone and that he'd help with my daughter. He did for a month but since we are in our own apt now it feels like all that attention was to get me away from my daughters father. :/ im a prisoner in HIS apt. Cant have the temp over 65. Ge has HIS own food that i cant eat. Doesnt what to have sex. Doesnt want to be touched. Doesnt go on dates. List can go on.

What should i do? I am debating on leaving with my daughter.