Well.. I have a question for everyone..

In my past I've been sexually abused and I can't tell if that has to do with my issue, or how I can work toward fixing it.

I like sex, but.. I can't ever, EVER seem to reach orgasm with any partner I have had. I know it's not healthy for a relationship but I lie and fake it because I don't want him to think he's not doing something right.

I guess the question is, anyone else with a past like this, do u also have these troubles? How can you fix it..

Please help me. My doctor says not to assume I won't orgasm. And my mental state should take over and I'll reach peak but it won't work.. and they say it's all in my head.