27 weeks and marital problems

I need thoughts and opinions on this..my husband likes to smoke weed everyday all day. He's done this for about two years now and its always kind of bugged me but more so lately since we are having a baby together. I've expressed my feelings to him letting hom know that i don't like it. That it makes me feel like he's unhappy or something and doesn't want to truly be present. We have been together for almost ten years. It hasn't been easy. I've always felt like im dragging him down the same road as me. To move foward with me. He didn't want a baby. I did. His excuse was we don't have enough money. He has a steady job but it doesn't pay much. So i decided tp go back to school to make having a baby possible. He still has his job and is content with it. I finished school and we are now having a baby. He calls it a deal. This was the deal for a baby. I go to school and get a better job. He gives me this baby. So apart of me feels like we are where we are today because of ME. Not us. And when he gets high EVERYDAY it makes me feel even more insecure about us. Don't get me wrong. There are good things about him about us. He does try really hard to show me and tell me he loves me EVERYDAY. He always tries to be positive and happy. He's a very in the moment type of man. very intelligent and a deep thinker. The things that matter to me really don't matter to him. House baby money. The American dream. I just cannot help but feel the way i do. I don't want him getting high everyday. He says im jusy never happy and i just want to control him. Maybe he is right? Idk how to feel. Im so happy and excited for this baby. I just want to be happy because i worked so hard to get here. Thoughts? Opinion? Should i be upset that he won't stop getting high everyday?