my husband and i have been together for a total of 9 years. our sex life was good in the beginning, but always has been cut short. He cums within 5 minutes. every. single. time.

i used to think he was nervous, he’s a nervous person, so whatever. but after 9 years it’s getting to the point i’m unsatisfied. I’m actually to the point i don’t wanna have sex because i’m left just hanging every. single. time. i’m fed up.

he says it’s normal and all guys do it, but SOMETIMES ya know?

He’s tried jacking off before then having sex, still cums fast or not at all and just stays limp.

is this something he should see a doctor for? he’s too embarrassed to seek a professional but said i could post this because he completely understands and agrees.