My family’s very dramatic. They all talk shit about each other, no problem. It’s always been like that, it always will be, thats the type of people they are. I’ve gotten used to it, I don’t join in because most of it’s the stupidest shit talking I’ve heard and they all believe each other so it’s like one giant circle of lies.

Today my cousin just casually asks what more do I need for this baby (I’m pregnant) because she wants to buy me something. I tell her to just get whatever she wants, I have everything already. Then she mentions that my grandma has been telling family members that I don’t have anything for this baby at all.

My grandma has a big fancy washer and dryer set so I’ve literally been washing everything for the baby at her house. She has psychically seen with her own eyeballs every single thing this baby has. It’s literally the first 2 years worth of stuff from my first born and then some brand new stuff too.

I’m not the one to continue the drama or start a big fight. that’s just not me, plus the fact that my family can talk shit one day and all act like best friends the next. So Im lost on what to do really. I was supposed to go to my grandmas house for dinner today, she invites me over for dinner multiple times a week, I’m honestly probably her favorite grandkid, we’re honestly really close.

Which is why I’m having a hard time understanding this. Because honestly I’m probably the only person my grandma hasn’t ever talked shit about.

But it also has me wondering for different reasons, because the person my cousin herd this from is her mom, who is also a huge liar. Like I don’t know if I should even believe my grandma said that or not. I do know my grandma has told me herself she thought I was a little low in 3-6M clothes so she was gonna be on the lookout for some. I could see her casually mentioning that I was low on one size to my aunt and my aunt blowing it up and saying my grandmas saying I don’t have shit.

Do I just ignore it all and go to dinner at my grandmas and drop all of this or what?? I’m honestly considering it just for the fact that if I mention it to my grandma she’s gonna be mad at my aunt, and that will start a fight there.