Ready for sex??

I’m almost 23 and I’m still a virgin. Growing up I was extremely overweight so my experience in High school was completely different from my peers. I’m about 8lbs away from losing 100lbs. When I started I was around 230.

Anyways I’m ready to have sex but have a dilemma. I’ve never done ANYTHING with another human.

I want to have sex and the only thing I care about is that my first time is with someone who will be understanding it’s my first time. I don’t care if it’s one and done, we date a little or end up in a long term relationship. Honestly sometimes I think I just want sex and physical touch, for some reason I see it more of an act of pleasure than anything else.

I feel like they shy away from virgins?

I’m on hinge, is it okay to be open like that?

Ughhhhh