We don’t know what to do. Originally we planned to tell our family and closed friends on thanksgiving since we thought I’d be 10 weeks, but turns out baby is measuring a week behind. We’ll be 9 weeks and 3 days on thanksgiving and we’re not sure if we should share. I’m a social drinker, always drinking wine or beer so I know it’s going to seem odd if I don’t. Should we share? I don’t think we can hold it in until Christmas and to be honest, keeping it a secret is stressing me out. I want and need my mother’s advice. This is my first pregnancy and feel so lost. I was thinking of possibly doing a a private ultrasound Monday to make sure baby is okay? Ughhhh. ☹️