Alright I have a weird question

So I’m more of a submissive lover. Tell me what to do and call me your dirty slut- I’m wet af. I like to be treated..... dirty. However I married a more “loving” man. We get kinky sometimes but not that much. I’ve expressed what I like but as I said I am submissive meaning you don’t say it I won’t do it. I’m just wondering if anyone else is kind of like that? My husband isn’t vanilla and we have very passionate sex just not dirty sex. I’d like to do more kinky things more often.... my husband is totally open to it but we just idk.... it’s like both of us are too awkward to it. Any suggestions