Husband got a vasectomy behind my back!

I’m so damn torn I feel robbed & cheated of the life I wanted with him. We agreed on children after we were to be married. No rush! But we would definitely want to start a family. This was a huge slap in the fucking face. I don’t think I can recover from this. I just needed to vent guys. 😓😓 people are saying vasectomies are reversible but idgaf ! He still went behind my back. And I found out because he told me 🤯. I’m definitely filing for divorce

Update: I guess I really didn’t know my newly wed husband the way I thought I did. Come to find out he was cheating on me and having sex unprotected. And look, the person he cheated on me with was his ex and she’s 6 months pregnant!!!!!!!! I really can’t do this anymore. He’s stolen my life from me! He’s lied to me! She reached out to me via Facebook I guess she felt the need to tell me so she can have him. And she’s gotten her wish. I have left our home and I am staying with my mom until I figure things out. He’s been reaching out to me telling me he can get the procedure reversed and he never meant to hurt me. I’m not going for it. It’s just too much I can’t do this.

UPDATE: Hey ladies thank you so much for your kind words. I had my consultation with a lawyer today and he thought it was best that I file a complaint for annulment. I think that’s best for me because it’ll legally make the marriage seem like it never happened. In the state of New Jersey what he did fell in that category for filing. He did me so wrong y’all just don’t understand, I gave my all to this man. Plus the bitch he got pregnant is now harassing me on Facebook and making jokes. Like how old are we ????? Anyways I plan on filing harassment charges on her if this continues. Once again thank you guys so much. Oh and to the ladies that says “HIS BODY, HIS CHOICE” .... screw you! Because if your husband did this to you and said he’ll never get it reversed you’ll be crushed too! Fuck you! Have a nice day. Thanks again lovely ladies.