I keep getting annoyed during sex?!

We’re having so much trouble with our sex life and I know I’m the problem but I don’t know how to stop. I feel like my husband will just be getting on my nerves and irritating me with little things DURING sex and it prevents me from getting into it and being turned on by him 😭

Things like, every time I moan or say something feels good he always says “yeah” like in this weirdly high-pitched voice and I think he thinks it’s sexy but I’ve told him repeatedly it’s so annoying, like I don’t need you to validate my moaning in that annoying voice? Hes stopped it mostly, but every once in a while he still does it and I think sometimes I get annoyed preemptively because I’m worried he’s going to do it? Or like, he’ll start fingering me and it’ll hurt because his nails are too sharp, because this man-child won’t cut his nails until I remind him to. And like, how do I bounce back from that? When I’m in the middle of trying to have sex with him and I’m just thinking “really? You couldn’t have cut your nails?” and now I’m supposed to be turned on by him?? And then there’s other things that are less his fault, like his feet are always like SO sweaty (like beyond what’s normal...) and then I’ll brush against them and it’s just so gross and kills the mood for me......

I have communicated with him about the things he does that are within his control and he genuinely tries his best to improve them. But when it’s not one thing, it’s always another. And I know I’m ruining it for him too by making him feel like he has to walk on eggshells during sex in order to not kill the mood for me...

I KNOW I’m being petty and uptight and too knit picky so no need to tell me that. I know I’m the problem. He’s a WONDERFUL man and I love him with all my heart. I just don’t know how to get out of my head and how to stop things like this from making me feel annoyed at him during sex 😓