Marriage sucks ass with this man

1 baby and another on the way and I'm feeling like I wish I knew all that he would put me through almost 3 years ago before I said I do. I'm so sick of feeling like im just being tolerated by my own husband. Feeling like my house is not a home. Like I'm not appreciated. Like I'm a maid instead of a wife. An outlet for all negative things and not a helpmate. I want to just be done so bad....but its so much easier said than done.