Cesarean

So my baby is still breech at 35+2 weeks and doctor said if she hasn’t flipped by next Tuesday I will be referred to a specialist to discuss manually trying to flip her. I am not comfortable with that procedure as I know there are risks and no guarantee of it even being successful therefore my only other option is a Caesarean section and I’m terrified mostly of the recovery and not being able to have my husband in the room while they do my spinal and iv. This is my first pregnancy which just adds to all the anxiety.