Why? Am I the only one ?

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Why did I have to fall in love with a drug addict? He always spends every dime on drugs and constantly lying and trying to cheat on me and I just don’t know why I still love this man.... he constantly plays the victim and acts like I’m some kind of horrible person that I’m not... I’m just wanting to know if anyone else has dealt with a so like this!

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You can love someone and still walk away. You can love someone and still not accept their behavior in your life.

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I watched my mom live in agony with a person like this. Please please please try to get out of this relationship. You deserve a stable, loving person.

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I was with an addict. If he loves substances more than you then it’s so not worth it. Loving yourself is so much more important than using your love on someone who doesn’t care.

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Thank you ladies!

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Not many addicts know how much it hurts the people around them.
To watch them self destruct and not a damn thing we can do about it.
You try to help and you become “judgmental ”
They lash out on you, because you don’t understand.
They have to want to stop, and typically it’s almost impossible on their own because of the detox and learning how to cope in different ways.
Most addicts have trama from childhood, memories that they can never escape and drugs help them “escape”
I’m so sorry for you having to go through this, there is no quick fix advice other than him being down and out, homeless and left on the bottom to realize that this isn’t the way 😕
None of us want that for our loved ones, sending my best.

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You love him but does he love you ? Has he said it ? Why do you stay ? My husband and I have some issues with you could say he is very verbal and can’t control his temper. I’m just something for him to get mad at.

Why? Am I the only one ?

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