My MIL's fiance said I was basically a bad mother because I refused to bring my daughter into their home today. He's a chain smoker and alcoholic. He told my husband what we're doing is "bullshit". I have asthma and her doctor said she could get ear infections from cigarette smoke. With my husband's history of ear infections and what it's done to him, they would want to do tubes almost immediately. Apparently protecting your daughter is being a bad mother.