Rant....mother who makes everything worse

My mom....I could literally talk for hours about the awful insensitive way she has. How when I had my misscarriage this past August I avoided telling her because I knew she’d find a way to make it about her. How she ruined planning my wedding, my bridal shower and announcing my engagement with her selfishness....told me I was selfish to have a destination wedding, told me to plan my own shower after I asked for the shower to not be at the one restaurant I don’t like....how she immediately flipped out on me because she was suspicious that I told my aunt and sister in law about my miscarriage before her.... but yesterday she posted on Facebook a picture of my niece with the caption “ We love her and are thankful for the one granddaughter we’ve been blessed with”.

Her fucking choice of words here felt like a sucker punch. She knows I would have been pregnant this holiday season, and that I’m still an emotional wreck. When I brought it up to her yesterday she got angry at me and told me I was being irrational, and that she had no clue what was so offensive.