Toddler + new born twins!

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I’m expecting twins in ~6-7 weeks and currently have an 18m daughter at home. Any advice :)? Also I will be having another c section - so any advice on recovery with a toddler who loves to be held? (Thankfully she’s favouring her dad right now but I know it’ll be very hard for me to not pick her up. She’s ~30Ibs).