Am I being unreasonable?

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So I booked my anatomy scan when I was 13 weeks. Made sure to book it for the evening so my so could make it since he can’t get time off work. It’s scheduled for this Wednesday when I will be 19w5d. 
My so has known about it since it was booked and then yesterday tells me he screwed up and told his work it was Thursday so now he can’t be there. 
Well my mom heard that and now she wants to be the one to come to the US. I would rather go alone. And now she is sulking, I know if she comes she will be shrieking and making a huge commotion and I just don’t want to deal with that. When we told her I was expecting she screamed in the restaurant and had a meltdown. She came to some of my sons ultrasounds but that was a completely different situation since I was so young. 
And now I’m frustrated with my so and my mom

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Its your mom if your so was coming so you only wanted him would be different but you just rather go alone is heart breaking for a mom to hear sorry but you only have one mom who wont be here forever

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My husband just got booked on a work trip for our 20 week appt. Can you try to reschedule it and tell your mom you did so to make sure your SO can make it?

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If my mom was interested, I would let her come but she’s not. So I went alone while my husband watched the kids. I would be hurt if my daughters didn’t want me a part of their experience and would rather go alone. The techs always look a little sad when I’m alone too lol. My husband only wants to see the pictures printed anyway. Ive been doing all dr and ultrasounds alone since my 2nd pregnancy and this is #3

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I'm going alone. I'm happy with my decision. Protect your peace.

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Meant to click no, you're not being unreasonable

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My mother just tries to make everything all about her,  so I don't let her come to anything either.  You do what you feel is best.

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I would feel the same as you and not want her there, especially if that's how she reacts to stuff

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Sorry I meant to press no. If you don’t want her to be there then stick to your no. I had to tell my mom no and she handled it like an adult. People need to hear no sometimes and especially since it should be about your comfort level.

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Something similar happened to me. My husband should of had it off, but a huge work meeting was scheduled in the middle of the scan like 2 days before the scan and it was way too big of a deal for him to not attend the meeting. Didn’t bother me, but when my family found out, my sister begged to come. I told her no and she was mad, but got over it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
She wasn’t happy with me for a bit, but it’s our baby and I wanted it to either be me and husband and or just me.

Am I being unreasonable?

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