Your Not A Hoe.

So I am a firm believer in women being able to explore their sexuality and have as many sexual encounters as possible as long as they are consensual and safe. I believe women should have the same opportunity as men to explore and experiment in order to figure out what they really want. The reason why I chose to post this is because a lot of women make comments about why men dont get judged and why society looks down on women who have multiple sex partners or sexual experiences but we as women are the first to judge women as such. I also made this post to applaude women period if you are being yourself and you love it keep going . Anyone who is attacking u or putting you down isn't comfortable with themselves so they try to point out things your comfort with and make you insecure. I had a friend (as so I thought) who knew of some sexual experiences that i had with different people . She was the type of person who most guys would ignore and only pay attention to her to play her. I was always known as "mama" to people because through experience and growth I was always the most mature for my age and would always tell people advice and would tell them things would happen that would happen. Everybody loves me because I always practice what I preach and I never judged anybody for a thing they did. Well the person supposed to be my friend would often say things like "I'm not a hoe I'm not just going to have sex with anybody" and "I'm not a hoe" "your gonna have sex with that guy aren't you" . It never bothered me because I was comfortable with myself but she wasnt. She was insecure in the area I was most comfortable. Eventually what she said started to get to me because she would say certain things and when I would tell her dont tell me to say or do certain things you wouldn't do she would throw another shot at me. She felt like because she had fewer sexual partners than me that she was superior towards me that she was better and worth more. At one point I did start to believe this until I realized words that people make up and define are defined by people with their perception. Meaning you can change the meaning of words to comply with your standards or erase the word completely. Dont let someone make you feel lesser than them because your a virgin or because you've had multiple partners. If your safe and comfortable and you and your partner consented it's your vagina and your body. you can have just as much respect for yourself as a virgin. Now I know this post is all over the place but I had to say it. Lol this was my vent session/advice/motivation/uplifting women conversation. Women stop being ignorant and stop worrying about women and what they do with their vaginas.

And to the women who still dont get it