Did you find love after a divorce/separation?

Life after being with someone for so long? My husband left me because I caught him cheating on me. He was always very secretive and mean towards me. He hid a lot of things from me and I was so stupid I didn’t see the red flags until now that he’s gone. My question is, did you ever leave a long relationship and find someone else and have that “happily ever after”? There was nothing I wanted more than to become a mother and now I am so scared I will never be able to. It is so hard and painful to ends things but I know I have to. I want to put myself first for once. How did you get through a divorce/ separation?