Relationship issues break up or no?

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we’ve been together for 3 years. we just got engaged. we have one baby together.
he’s absolutely stressed because we ran out of money with me being a stay at home mom, i’m stressed because i’m around my baby all. day. long. but i have postpartum depression, i’m tired, i’m gross. i can’t seem to get out of bed. he just doesn’t understand.
he’s always in a bad mood yelling at me, i wanna crawl in a hole. i don’t wanna be yelled at so i yell back. i’m so lost. i keep saying “fine, god let’s just break up” i want it to just stop. we’re in such a sensitive spot

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Go to therapy. The both of you.

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Are you seeing someone for your ppd? Are you able to go back to work? These two issues could be temporary once they are figured out, imo. Good luck 🍀

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If you have ppd you need to tell your doctor, they can get you on medicine to help you. Once you deal with your depression you guys might be able to sit down and talk about your problems and fix things

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One thing I will mention, fathers go through ppd as well. For all you know, he's going through it as well. I've seen so many relationships fail right after they have their first baby. I want you to know it's going to be okay. We women have to deal with so much! We nurture, we feed, we love through thick and thin. You have every right to feel the way you do!
Your relationship wasn't like this before, that's why you decided to have a baby (I'm assuming). It worked before, why isn't it now? Lack of money? So what? 
When there is a will, there is a way. You have something money can't buy. A finacé. A baby. These relationships are priceless. Look at it this way, love is not easy. You guys have hit a barrier in your relationship. Right now both of you aren't at 100%. Sometimes one needs to sacrifice first in order to sacrifice together to pull each other through. These days we live with the mentality, why me? Why do I need to sacrifice first? This is why we are women. You're not weak. We are built to pull through in situations like this, even with PPD. When he kicks off, stay calm. Let him blow off some steam. Tell him you love him. You clearly do if you just considering walking out and haven't done so already. Thats why your his rock. You guys are a team! The whole world is going to be fake with you, don't be fake to each other. 
Talk. It. Out. Tell him to come sit next to you and listen to each others complaint. Don't raise your voices. Everyone is recommending therapy. I agree with this, but I also see there are money issues. So therapy may not be affordable (unless it's covered under health care in your country). 
Write. It. Out. Write out what issues both of you are facing, therefore you have a visual on what needs to be worked on. Once you've writen out everything, you've now acknowledge there are issues. Find a solution to each issue.
Consider giving each other space. Maybe you can stay with your parent/sibling/ friend while he gathers his shit together. If you're a stay at home mom, remind him he's the bread runner and he needs to get his shit together but you're there for him. Remind him being a mom is a full time job. He's the provider - also a 365/24/7 job. Both of you aren't wrong. But he needs to get his shit together so he can focus on being the provider again. 
Build an understanding through communication. Compromise. Sacrifice. Make it work. 
Good luck!

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Make a plan it helps if you have a focus a target where you wanna go. And please get treatment for your PPD. I'm feeling sorry for your guy too, I'm sure he must feel like a loser(Im not saying he is) can't support his family enough and has a wife that is sick and he can't help there either, he is probably panicking. If you can get treatment it will benefit the both of you I'm sure.

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Yelling at ppd won't help anything but neither will not trying to treat it. Get meds and therapy for both of you. Yourself alone if he says no

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