Early labour signs?

I’m 40+2 really fed up now, I’m so done I just want my baby out of me, I just want to meet his little face and hold him for the very first time. He’s teasing me!!😢

I had a sweep 2 days ago and no signs of little man appearing🤦🏼‍♀️ today though I’ve had quite bad backache that sends shooting pains down my leg and my tailbone feels quite sore. Not been able to sleep properly, woke up with hot flushes, also woke up feeling nauseous and like I had a bad tummy. I had loose bowels (tmi) very strong smell after I went to the toilet😷🤕 also woken up with a headache so I took some paracetamol.

Midwife said 2 days ago my cervix was soft and starting to “ripen” but just needed thinning out.

So does it sound promising? Does it sound like labour is approaching? I honestly don’t want to be induced😩😩😩