I just had our baby girl 4 months ago. Since that time my husband doesnt do anything. We both work, i make more so i cover 90% of the bills which is fine but he can contribute more then he does but desides to use his money for beer instead. He drinks every night. Doesnt clean anything, doesn't help with the baby unless he doesn't have a choice. At night he covers his head and plugs his ears when the baby cries. I have tried to talk to him countless times and he says oh ill change but never does. Im at a loss and i dont know what to do anymore. My older daughter tells me today yesterday when he was watching them he fell asleep and left the baby awake on the bed and my daughter who is 8 went in and picked her up when she started crying.. ughhh just needing to vent.. soo done