advice on sketchy lying ‘religious’ husband...

so ive only been married a little over two years and we have two kids. (only known eachother as long as we were married as it was arranged).

over the course of our marriage there has been abuse... first while i was pregnant with our first, then even choked on multiple occausions and sadly our baby to witness such things...

i chose to stay and accept a second promise to never lay hand on me again (the first promise didnt hold obviously...). He hasnt been physical since july 2019 so he’s upheld that promise so far, and if he didnt i would have to go.

However, some other (almost worse imo) things have come up since then. I found out hes still currently married to another women 😪 he claims they were never married and never acted married (liked lived together or did anything) but he faked the marriage to get citizenship 🤦🏾‍♀️ (super illegal) and he didnt think to divorce from that fake marriage since neither of them considered themselves to have been actually married because it was all fake (and illegal just to get him to this country), but he does say he had intended to ACTUALLY marry her but had changed his mind after coming to the country...

idk if i can beleive this just because all the lies thatve come up now. but i decided to accept his explination at the time...

i was having issues with my husband throughout our marriage with how religiously strict he is. He had been very controlling and restricting etc and yelling at me or putting me down for not meeting his rigtheous standards.

to give you more background, religiously, hes not supposed to be friends with, be alone with, chat innapropriatly with, or even watch and look at ‘scantily clad’ women etc. the religion is very segregation oriented and hes the type to have said innapropriatly dressed women are disgusting to him (meaning not attractive, he finds it ‘gross’ 🙄) and hes also the type to make a huge fight because he thinks i looked at some guy or isnt dressed properly enough etc

so i found out hes been watching innapropraite videos of women... like all the time. its sad because that was the last thing good about him i’d held on to. I thought, hes a jerk, he makes my life difficult, he abuse me, but atleast im secure with him and could honestly never imagine him cheating on me. (and i say this is even worst than the abuse because after my exhusband who had the same/worse issue and just my life experiance in general, i struggled most with feeling secure...).

then i found out he picked up a girl from the airport and gave her a ride home... (its completely forbidden in the religion to be alone in a car with a women who isnt your family or wife etc and he knows this... and would probably slit my throat if i did the same—sorry to sound dramatic but he’s used that threat before)

just alot of sketchy things and i feel hes a lying hypocrite...

under the guise of being supremely holy over others and all about his religion is a liar and criminal and i cant trust him anymore...

i just had our second son two weeks ago.

my husband had the habit of laying out in the living room up until 2am on his phone and i always assumed he was just doing innocent things but now i assume hes watching these degrading videos and maybe worse... im so suspicious of him because of all the lies and hypocrisy ive discovered...

he keeps making up excuses and it literally just sounds like my first husband all over again...

first he’ll play dumb, then he’ll admit it a bit but say its not how i think and make excuses, and eventually start to own up to it more... i used to think my husband was a pretty genuine person despite being an overbaring, controlling, or abusive one, i atleast trusted him in saying he’s never do those kinds of things but i have a whole different view of him now that i cant shake...

any advice what to do? he keeps having an additude like im overreacting and need to let this all go and like playing the victim that im being cruel to him because i dont want him to touch me and im upset at him etc... he has said hes sorry (which hes always been quick to say our whole marriage which i guess is good?)

... sorry for the long rambling... i just need some opinions/advice

we live in a different country than everyone i know so im all alone here, im a sahm with two little ones and no income... i do have a car tho thankfully

thanks for reading this far and i appreciate any feedback 😕