I don’t know if I should leave my boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and in the beginning everything was perfect. Now he seems to be a completely different person. He doesn’t even talk the same anymore. We’ve been living together for a majority of our relationship and we got along great up until around my birthday in September. We started arguing more than usual but I didn’t think much of it I just thought maybe we’re going through a rough patch? Shortly after my birthday I found out that I am pregnant and although I’m excited, being pregnant has only increased our fighting. To him I’m lazy all because I’m sick all the time and can’t fold the laundry right when he asks. I recently lost my job due to being sick all the time and my boyfriend was very upset about it. I’ve already found a new job and start next week and I’ve also re-enrolled in school so I can finish before baby gets here. I’m trying my best. He’s recently starting saying things to me that I find really offensive like “Why do you look like that?” after I wake up in the morning and he makes little comments about how he’s the only one capable of providing for our baby and it makes me feel like a bad mom. He keeps bringing up child support briefly and it makes me feel like he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. Also he doesn’t seem interested in knowing what’s new with baby and I have our ultrasound pictures hanging on my mirror in our room and he told me yesterday that looking at them makes him sick to his stomach. Who says that about their child?? I feel like I can’t celebrate my pregnancy either. He doesn’t want to let me have a gender reveal party but I really want to so I told him he doesn’t have to come if he doesn’t want to be apart of it. He’s just been so mean the past few months and I try to talk to him about it and he apologizes but nothing really ever changes. I really really do love him and I want him to love me and our baby. But I don’t know if I should put my baby in this kind of situation. I need to put my baby first. I just don’t know what to do.
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