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So, I’m a bit of an introvert, but I am making an effort to be more outgoing, and it’s actually going well! I’m being more talkative, making good conversation with people, hanging out in crowded places more, yay! Anyway, I tell my bf of one month that I’m excited about being more extroverted and putting myself out there, and he goes “You’re not. You are an introvert.” Completely dead face, no expression, except for a slight smirk...it really hurt my feelings. Idk if I’m being sensitive?

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😕 It seems like an unnecessary thing to say, when he could of just said “That’s great! Glad you’re getting yourself out there” or something like that. I would be kinda offended too, keep an eye on him lol

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It would have hurt my feelings if I were out in your shoes. I’d want to be told “yeah babe, I know it isn’t the easiest for you, but you’re trying and I appreciate it”. He could have gone about the conversation in a better way.

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Did you tell him it hurt? See what he says to that and if he sticks with what he said before then yeah it is kinda douchey :/ but I’m proud of you, it’s so good to get out and do new things every now and then :) I know how hard it can be to go to more crowded areas or do things that require more social interaction, been there sis

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