If a guy was in his 30s that you work with (not sure if age has anything to do with this) was funny and smart and you began to like him but you noticed he talks about his ex’s a lot, says “she’s hot” about girls on tv (like the news woman) and talked about how hot girls are that are in person (passing by or someone that works at another company ex:someone showed him pictures of a group photo and he said “let me see. I’m looking for the hot ones”) or hung out with a coworker who has a long time boyfriend and they sneak off to go talk privately a lot or whatever they do, would you still like him?

This happened to me. And I’m starting to no longer like him because I see him as disrespectful towards women. I see him as someone who yes is a great guy, great friend.. but incredibly immature and doesn’t respect women, and surely wouldn’t respect me if we were together. Know your worth! Just seeing if others would still like someone if they did this.