How long did it take for you to forgive your partner after messing up ?

Question

My man says that I shouldn’t still be upset after he messed up in February and hurt me (emotionally) and lost my trust. Wondering if I’m just holding onto something I shouldn’t or if My feelings are valid. I trust him more now but sometimes it still hurts and I need to talk about it. Am I the only one?

Answer

It's OK to still be hurt and have difficulty to trust him.
However if he's made an effort to make things right and try regain your trust then you should also appreciate that and move on.
It's not fair to either party if you're going to hold onto something indefinitely.

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It really depends on what happened and how you’re working on things to profess past the situation. If he’s trying invalidate your feelings in a situation that he did wrong, I would think maybe he’s not genuinely apologetic towards it

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It takes work to forgive. It takes communication and a very strong will to forgive. It takes work on his part to earn that trust back. There is no timeline on how long that will take. It’s a process

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It's not his place to say whether you should be over it or not. That's a timeline only you can decide on. 
If he thinks it's taking too long, he has two choices - stay and continue working on it with you, or leave. Same choices you have. 
That being said, if you think you won't ever be over it, you may need to consider if it's appropriate to stay in the relationship. But that's something you'd need to have a think about.

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It honestly took a full year for me to let it go. We went to therapy and worked everything out fairly quickly but I just wasn’t ready to fully let go. Sure I forgave him and I still haven’t forgotten but I don’t feel pain and sadness anymore(if I ever think about it) my husband let me feel whatever I needed to feel and do whatever I needed to do in order to move on. He let me heal in my own time. We’re now stronger then ever!

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Depends what happened? Are you talking about cheating? Financial shadiness?

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He doesn’t get to dictate how long it takes for you to heal.

How long did it take for you to forgive your partner after messing up ?

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