Not all sad story's have sad endings! ❤️
So just wanted to make a little post because I just wanted to let other single moms out there know that putting themselves out there romantically when they have been through the ridiculous shit some baby daddies will put you through doesn't mean you're always going to get hurt and sometimes you might find a really great guy for you and your child/children.
So my story is when my son was three months old his father cheated on me got another girl pregnant and in order to avoid having to pay to child support for a second kid 2 weeks after I kicked him out he decided to fully abandoned me and his son and move out of state with his new girlfriend. I really couldn't believe it and was on a "men ain't shit" vibe 🙄. I was terrified of the idea of getting into a relationship with somebody who might leave not only me again when I need them the most but also now my son. However I decided that life is too short to not try and be happy for the right reasons. So I put myself out there and not even intentionally trying reconnected with an old school friend who did all of the gentlemen type things that I didn't think boys in their early twenties even knew about anymore. So far ever since that first date things have been going amazing my son adores him he adores my son everything has come so naturally it's crazy it's almost like he was meant to be in our lives which is why I truly now believe everything and I mean everything even watching your child be abandoned by its other parent happens for a reason. And now having my son have a positive role model in his life and someone who at this point I'm a hundred percent sure is planning on sticking around for the long haul and having someone to be a partner in life with me that is loyal, honest, kind, and caring it all is worth it all of the crap my son's father put me through all the pain had a reason behind it. 👩👦➡️ 👨👩👦
Don't be afraid to be happy! 🥰
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