I am 8 days away from giving birth and live in a different province to my mother and the rest of my family. She's supposed to come in 3 days to stay over until baby comes. She's basically telling me we need to go back up to where she lives with her so she can "keep an eye on us" but since I'm going natural, we don't know when baby is coming exactly. She's opting to come. With 2 of my sisters kids, high energy, high maintenance kids. I don't want to travel for 8 and a half hours with a newborn, only to get to my mom's house and everyone going back to work while I baby sit my sister's kids and my new baby. I feel like it will be too much. I feel like she's not doing this to support me but to get her own way and take control of the situation. It takes 2 weeks to get a birth certificate in our country and she's putting pressure on me to leave with baby in that two weeks. 😭 When I talk to her, she guilt trips me and makes me feel like I'm saying I don't need her.