My husband wants to tell

We will be 10 weeks on Christmas Day. Family is coming over on Christmas eve. My husband so badly wants to tell everyone! We’ve had two losses this year. First one at 9w6d and the other at 6w4d. The difference is both of those pregnancies had low heart rates and they measured 2 weeks behind. This pregnancy is right on measurement and we have a heartbeat of 186. We both (and our fertility specialist) feel really good about everything.. but I’m so nervous for my families reaction.

We’ve told some friends and everyone is so nervous.. I just don’t want to feel the disappointment of my family not being sure.. or hearing “well let’s hope it works out this time” it’s breaking my heart.. I feel bad because I know my husband isn’t worried..

I just don’t know what to do 😞😞

It’s just hard. It’s mine AND my husbands pregnancy. I want him to be able to make decisions and make some calls.

What do you ladies think?