No phone in the bathroom rule!? Wdyt?

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This is something that happened with a friend of mine she told me about it and it has me scratching my head.
So my friend had been with her guy for 11 years, met in high school, got pregnant within 2 months of knowing each other. They are not married but own a home now. She never worked a day in her life so, he bought the house and since she's not working she gets government assistance. This info may come in handy later.
So she walked in on him masturbating in the bathroom one day to porn on his phone and she was furious. She has now made it a RULE that he is not to have his phone in the bathroom ever.
How are you going to tell a grown ass man that he 1. Can't touch his own body and 2. Make rules for him in a house that you didn't even buy when he and the government give you a free ride.
Is it just me or is this so controlling and unhealthy?!
To those saying it's not my business she told me about it and asked my opinion about it so it became my business 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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Nope not just you. Controlling and abusive 100 percent.

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Your second point is irrelevant. Her having government assistance is 1000% not your business and using it against her is a low blow. Even if she did buy the house, it wouldn’t justify her being toxic either. 
Why are you staying friends with someone you obviously think so low of..?

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It’s their relationship. Stay out of it.

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It’s not your business. You may think you know all the facts but I guarantee you that you don’t. Mind your own business and stay out of it.

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I don’t think the fact that he bought the house for them to live or that she’s on government assistance play into this story at all.

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It’s their relationship but odd to me. The no phone rule. If I’m going to be in there awhile I bring my phone to play a game or scan Pinterest etc. 
Every couple has different feelings on porn, it’s not part of our relationship.

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I get not liking porn, but the phone rule is a bit overboard. I like having my phone with me in the bathroom only cause I look at memes on my phone. I only asked my boyfriend why is he holding his phone while he’s standing there peeing. He has a habit of his phone getting messed up from dropping it on the ground mostly so I tell him be careful not to drop it in the toilet.

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I’m not okay with my husband masturbating, but I would never make a rule that he couldn’t have his phone in the bathroom. We have both struggled with masturbation and don’t believe it is healthy for our marriage so we have worked together to support each other and meet each others needs so we are not put in a place where we are tempted to masturbate.

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Totally controlling, insecure, emasculating.

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That’s controlling and abusive I’d tell her to fuck off.

No phone in the bathroom rule!? Wdyt?

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