Whiplash

Hey guys, so my bf and I have been together 2 years. And things definitely have not been easy. One big thing that happened was we moved to Charlotte, NC from Upstate NY at the end of the summer. I’ve always wanted to leave the cold. But both our jobs ended up crappy, and we came to the decision to go back to NY. Now my bf’s job here is getting bad again (he went back to the same company as before the Charlotte move) and he wants to move to Raleigh this time (to work remotely for the job he had when we were in Charlotte!) and pretty much is saying he can’t be happy here even though I finally found some consistency with my job. But, part of me still wants to be someplace warmer. And I love him. So I don’t know what to do.... give me some advice! Do I do the move, less than 6 months since we got back from Charlotte, where we were for 3 months only? Do I stay in NY and risk losing him?