Am I wrong?

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Pregnant people are starting to bother me again. Maybe it's because I would have been far enough along to definitely have a bump by now... but when I can I ask my coworkers if they can help the pregnant customers.
It's not their fault I had a loss and perhaps this is their miracle baby after many losses. But they dont need my money ass in their lives seemingly unable to stop staring at their belly sadly. If my coworkers are busy I'm not ridiculous about it, but I just ask if they could please try to pick up the pregnant ones before i have to help them.
My babies were due march 2019 and March 2020. Lost them both. No longer trying right now but hoping for a future miracle

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Sorry for your losses. I don’t think you’re wrong for how you feel. I’ve never gone through what you’ve gone through, but I had my first baby 13 years ago, and for years I wanted another one. Whenever someone I knew was pregnant I would distance myself from them, I even went as far as deleting people on my social media after they announced their pregnancy because it was so hard for me to be excited knowing they were having babies and I wasn’t or couldn’t. It got bad for me when my sister got pregnant twice within 4 years. I love her dearly, but I wasn’t excited nor interested in her pregnancies at all. But then, 13 years after my first I was blessed with my second. It was bittersweet because I began to feel horrible about how I acted. Don’t feel bad, your heart wants what it wants and it’s hard to show excitement when you feel as if “that should be my baby”. 
I pray you are blessed tenfold. I believe that one day it will happen for you, in Jehovah’s name.

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I’m so sorry for your losses. Your absolutely entitled to feel the way you do. My baby boy was still born 39 weeks 6 days and after that I couldn’t stand to see or be around pregnant people. I would literally cry

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I deleted Instagram because everyone was doing their cute pregnancy announcements on Christmas and I was supposed to be doing that too but I lost my second pregnancy in a row. Sometimes you just need a step back. Nothing wrong with how you feel.

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After my loss, I couldn’t stand anything that had to deal with pregnancy or babies . I eventually got over it but no your not wrong for feeling that way

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