My husband and I have not been getting along for almost a year and a half now. He is constantly saying mean things, picking fights, saying I'm emotional and have issues, etc. I have asked him to go to marriage counseling with me but he refuses. Says he doesn't have issues except for me, this is not the first time he has said this either.

I'm so frustrated and tired of fighting! He has all these hobbies but he puts them above our children and our relationship. He is gone almost every weekend. He refuses to help around the house, makes me ask for money for joint Bill's. I have a decent job and I pay anything solely in my name and help with joint things but I dont make enough to cover it all like he expects.

Theres so much more to this but I'm at a loss at what to do. This is my second marriage and I'm trying my best to save it.