Showers...

What are your guys thoughts on the dad having a seperate "diaper party" and the mom having the "baby shower" ? I never understood it as the diaper party is litterally just for drinking with your friends rather than actually celebrating your baby to come... I am more for the Coed shower as I dont think its fair for people to just relate the gifts to the mom as the dad is just as much a part of it.

What are your guys thoughts?

EDIT***** if you have done a COED shower can you post pictures if you have? All ideas are appreciated 💕