Falling out of love? Help

Question

People often talk about “falling out of love” and it really scares me the thought of it because I cant imagine my life without my current partner
Do you believe falling out of love can be avoided or controlled. How do you stop yourself falling out of love or what can you do to fix it
Or prevent someone falling out of love with you 
How do you make a relationship last a very long time.
How do you prevent someone falling out of love with you

Answer

We communicate a lot. We have love, respect, empathy, compassion, understanding, non judgement, more communication and many other things. We just want the other person happy. We are selfless when it comes to the other. 
My husband never tells me no for anything but I don’t take advantage of that. 
you only get one chance to have a clean slate. 
I know what I need from my husband to feel loved and I communicate that to him.

Answer

Obviously a bunch can be said about this, but I can’t overstate the case for creating positive experiences together. I read somewhere that small, frequent experiences can actually be more beneficial to a relationship than grand romantic adventures.
So for instance, my husband and I do “Top 3”: every night, we tell each other three moments from our day that made us happy. If the day has been rough and we can’t think of anything, we’ll do something together to beef up our lists. Then either way, part of our daily ritual is to share joy with each other.
Also, learning to lean into the discomfort of sharing emotions with each other. If you’re both in love, you both want each other to be happy and fulfilled. Have an ongoing, open dialogue about what you want and need, and how you feel. Be sappy and vulnerable. Name how they make your life better. Ask them for help. Don’t keep secrets.
Lastly, realize that as you go through your life with this person, both of your feelings will evolve. Don’t panic if your ability to connect with each other changes. It’s temporary. Try instead to frame it. “I’m so excited to get to know the person you’re becoming.” It’s gotten my husband and I through some really tough times, and we are still the disgustingly-in-love couple.

Falling out of love? Help

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