Swaddle weaning

Ok, baby girl is DEFINITELY NOT ready to do the swaddle weaning. I tried the one arm out method with the Halo swaddle sac and she lost it! Kept waking up and then cried for hours because she was overtired. Worried because she is 14weeks (9.5 weeks adjusted).

Did y'all notice a switch for your babies for when they were ready, or am I going to have to just let her cry?