Help me 1st birthday

I’m over here stressing so bad about my kids 1st birthday. I get some mom don’t do big parties but I want too not to big but a lot of food and decorations and cake! So I’m started with where to have it at. My mom and I said maybe my apartment and take all the furniture out of the living room and rent some tables and get a canopy outside in case it rains (April baby) and we would have a bounce house.

Then there’s the other option or renting out this big room for 300 for 4 hours but its kinda really big. I’m scared a lot of people won’t show up and dont wanna waste money but we would still have a cookout and Bounce house ...

I have been stressing this and the theme all weekend ... his room theme is lumberjack and all his baby showers were . His favorite movie this was cat n the hat. So it’s either cat n the hat or lumber jack. And the lumberjack has really cute decorations on amazon but I feel like it’s just getting old . And cat n the hat don’t really have many decorations and it if I find one it has the cartoon cat n the hat and he don’t watch that one .

I have never planned a party thats why I’m stressing .

ALSO how much did you pay for there 1st year photos and what age did you get them done. His birthday April 24th but I have to plan ahead cause I wanna do all this and go to Florida in March and I’m a somewhat a single mom so I’m paying on my own. Husband don’t help me he just stayed in the living and avoids baby and I . Thanks In advance !!