Why is it that stubborn men don't like to listen to their SO?? I've tried my best to help my SO keep from going to... a place... not gonna say where because some of you ladies are very judgemental... but he wouldn't listen to me and wouldn't take any of my help and just wants to do it on his own and now he might be gone a few year's and our son is due February 8th. I can't handle him not being able to see his first born come into this world. I'm so stressed out and he just doesn't seem to give a shit!!