Husband Betrayal

I feel like my husband has betrayed me and I can’t stand to even look at him now 😭😭 Without speaking to me first, he told his parents that they could keep our son overnight this weekend. I have major problems with his parents and I can’t see letting my 3 month old stay there. His brother who still lives at home smokes weed in the house, his dad smokes cigarettes in the house, it’s always artic cold, and to be honest they are just straight up rednecks. I don’t feel like they respect my choices as a mom and my husband is blinded by it because they are his parents.