My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years, we have known each other for 22+yrs but we didn’t get together until recently, we both have been married before and children from previous relationships.

Anyways here within the last year it’s like he intentionally cancels dates with me, or he just starts a fight so I end up going to the store alone, or he will only go short distances with me no kids and it’s like when we just went out to eat the two of us he barely looked at me across the table and there was no conversation between us. It’s felt like a blind date and he was annoyed to be out with me. We showered together daily and now within last week that’s come to a stop. I bent over backwards to make sure he had gifts for Christmas even from my own kids, he did not even say thank you to me for anything. I did all the wrapping with help from my teenagers, and went to family gathering without him, he went to bed and stayed there all night. Do I keep trying hard on making this a marriage or should I stop?? I ask him repeatedly what does he want from this marriage or from me, I get no response. He always told me he couldn’t wait for the day I was his wife, I asked him to marry me when I took him out on date to Texas Roadhouse spontaneously asked him in front of 200 or more people. Now it’s like he is annoyed to even plan anything with me, both years for anniversary I tried to plan but he seem to make sure it would be canceled. I’m so lost and confused, I have never been so in love and I am afraid his feelings changed for me.